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(Anonymous) 2015-12-12 11:07 pm (UTC)(link)
"not with that body!"

not sure if you're really friends if she's going say something rude like that especially about something as sensitive as body image, like there are nicer ways to say that she has doubts

just tell her everyone's body works differently. some ppl can whatever the hell they want, not exercise and still look like a stick. just offer to help build her exercise regime and to plan a balanced diet

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(Anonymous) 2015-12-12 11:09 pm (UTC)(link)
the whole 'some ppl can eat whatever' is actually false lol, differences in for normal ppl in basic energy usage is only about 200-300 calories at its most extreme.

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(Anonymous) 2015-12-12 11:23 pm (UTC)(link)
da, my bff is ~100 lbs and every time i go see her on vacation i notice she just does not eat anywhere near as much as my fat ass

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(Anonymous) 2015-12-12 11:37 pm (UTC)(link)
da but lol i might be your friend, all my friends can eat more than me when we eat out. i fill up quickly during meals but i also have an insane sweet tooth and will eat junk food and snacks in between meals and at night

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(Anonymous) 2015-12-12 11:55 pm (UTC)(link)
see i do BOTH so i'm doubly fucked lol
honestly snacking throughout the day is probably why i'm so baste

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(Anonymous) 2015-12-12 11:31 pm (UTC)(link)
ik ppl irl that eat whatever they want and actually have troubles with gaining weight

i didn't want to sound like a humblebrag like other anons were telling original op, i'm not a stick but i actually don't gain weight easily either. i'm a couch potato and i've stayed at ~100lbs for many years now and i eat whatever i want at whatever time

since i don't like to exercise i tried to lower my caloric intake to lose a few pounds but i had to stop eating at around 1300 or something (it was a few years back i don't quite remember) and so i dropped maybe 5 pounds after a few weeks and stayed there for a bit before i got tired of not eating the foods that i wanted to eat (and i also had to stop eating pretty early since my limit would be up) so i started eating whatever i wanted again and stopped counting calories and i went back to 100lbs and have stayed there. i'm pretty sure my body is the type to not lose weight easily but also not gain easily

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(Anonymous) 2015-12-12 11:39 pm (UTC)(link)
thats usually cause the definition of 'eating whatever you want' that underweight ppl have differs from that of overweight ppl. if you compare normal diets for breakfast, lunch, dinner, snacks and etc it becomes obvious that thats the only difference.

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(Anonymous) 2015-12-12 11:50 pm (UTC)(link)
if someone eats a lot and doesn't gain any weight doesn't it mean there's something wrong with their system too? i get the naturally skinny excuse because it does happens but the healthy skinny? nahh it might be convenient but definitely not healthy.
now the human body is weird i started dating my ex when we were 18 and he always ate like a legit cow and wouldn't exercise but he was fucking skinny! but when he turned 21 he suddenly startted gaining all the weight he never gained before lmao he got so fat and had to start dieting and working out, he looks fine now that he's 26 but that's after years of fighting with his weight and getting used to eating well and working out

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(Anonymous) 2015-12-12 11:58 pm (UTC)(link)
i think it's not necessarily "unhealthly" but they obviously aren't the healthy/toned/fit type if they don't exercise but yes naturally skinny

metabolism slows down when you age and i've heard of cases like your ex too. tbh i think it might happen to me too in the next 5 years bc my sister said that it happened to her but then there's my mom who's been skinny her whole life (not toned/fit type but naturally just tiny and skinny). she doesn't have the best eating habits and was therefore never a good role model for what good eating should be bc she's never had to diet/look up what would make a healthy diet since she's always looked good