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KPOP SECRET MEME PART 323

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(Anonymous) 2015-12-13 10:23 pm (UTC)(link)
im gonna be a fun mom and find time for hobbies and friends..when everything is about ur kids u burn out so fast

before my mom joined this dancing club she was always so stressed raising us up but now that we r older and after she joined it shes made so many friends and even went on a trip to hawaii with them. Shes so much happier too

(Anonymous) 2015-12-13 10:26 pm (UTC)(link)
i think this is why they say happiness is u shaped. not to say kids cant be fulfilling but i think its hard to rly enjoy yourself when raising them bc they take up so much time and attention and money

(Anonymous) 2015-12-13 10:27 pm (UTC)(link)
i just never want to have kids, i love "me" time waaaaayyyyy too much to want to dedicate my life to a kid tbh.... maybe its selfish but o well lol

(Anonymous) 2015-12-13 10:29 pm (UTC)(link)
same. maybe one day i'll change my mind but idc if its selfish rn. i'd like to travel the world some day but at the rate im going i'd never get to very much if at all if i had children

(Anonymous) 2015-12-13 10:40 pm (UTC)(link)
it's better to realize you're selfish and refrain from raising an entire other human instead of just forcing yourself to be a parent tbh

(Anonymous) 2015-12-13 10:32 pm (UTC)(link)
i know ppl hate her but i wanna be a mom like wendy williams is - she works super hard, has her kevins (her son and husband) back in jersey, and still somehow manages to have fun and take care of herself. she seems to have a really balanced life.