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[(Anonymous)]

its been a rollercoaster of a weekend, man

on friday my sisters boyfriend of 3 years physically abused her, she has bruises on her arms and neck. its fucked up, and im furious at him. i've been telling her to leave him from the start, so im also angry at her but ofc im repressing that anger bc shes going through all of this. she's 33 so its not like i could make her leave him, as much as i tried... i always had a bad feeling with him, and she told me he's pushed her a bit aggressively in the past, but nothing near like this

we made her take us along after and get all her things from his place and we've told her shes not to speak to or see him ever again.
ive also been trying to persuade her to report him but shes refused bc she doesnt want anything on her own record and shes worried he'll retaliate somehow. we did call his mother though lol, she got a good shock

it gets even worse though. he was going to propose on saturday! HA! fucking asshole!!!

why are men such fucking bastards!

[(Anonymous)]

Ugh he sounds like a fucking jerk, im glad she is staying away for now. I feel like getting away from this kind of relationship is always hard but ur sister is strong and im glad she has a sis like u to support her...hope she finds herself a man worth her time in the future

[(Anonymous)]

anon don't be angry at ur sis please it's super hard to get out of situations like these bc they're constantly trying to justify their actions and weighing them against the good times they had and all. it's not about u here, forgive and forget when she's already gone thru so much. take her to a therapist if u can and just be glad that she got out

[(Anonymous)]

wow. i'm glad she's out of there. try to convince her to at least get some counseling. idk if she's ready to think about things yet tho. but at least she's got you and others on her side for support.

just remember, it's easy to see things from the outside but when you're in the midst of a relationship things can get hazy. try to empathize with her and not be so angry at her. this wasn't what she wanted or sought after. it can be hard for people to leave such situations especially if they love the person. and it can be easy to delude oneself into believing things will get better. just try to see things from her perspective.

i hope she heals and finds happiness