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(Anonymous) 2021-11-03 04:48 pm (UTC)(link)
i don't feel like this question is in good faith but for me personally sex is awkward the first time i do it with anyone and i'm self conscious about my body so i only am interested in it as a way to bond with someone i'm in a committed relationship with

(Anonymous) 2021-11-03 04:49 pm (UTC)(link)
well one of them clearly has talent and the other one doesn't

(Anonymous) 2021-11-03 04:50 pm (UTC)(link)
the talented one didn't get nominated

(Anonymous) 2021-11-03 04:53 pm (UTC)(link)
does that make exo the real super group

(Anonymous) 2021-11-03 04:55 pm (UTC)(link)
no i am genuinely curious bc just from observing it seems everyone is so obsessed with sex and many people don't rly do anything that doesn't revolve finding a partner/finding someone to have sex. its a huge motivator in life for people. obviously if its THAT good it would help me understand why so many people do this. just like we can confirm meth feels really great which is why its addictive etc.

that being said i have noticed people use sex as a way to bond/find intimacy that they crave but im wondering too if that is a better intimacy than when you're super close and platonic with someone

(Anonymous) 2021-11-03 04:55 pm (UTC)(link)
well they are to me ❤️

(Anonymous) 2021-11-03 04:56 pm (UTC)(link)
when i cared about voting you didn't have to pay, is that a new thing

(Anonymous) 2021-11-03 04:57 pm (UTC)(link)
the mama noms are a mess. can’t believe some of you got mad over this

(Anonymous) 2021-11-03 04:58 pm (UTC)(link)
well this one was funny because no one expected 4minute to win

(Anonymous) 2021-11-03 04:58 pm (UTC)(link)
who got mad? everyone besides you know who is chilling and/or laughing at the noms being a mess

(Anonymous) 2021-11-03 04:58 pm (UTC)(link)
no nom for aespa even though they have the biggest idol song since dddd…

(Anonymous) 2021-11-03 05:00 pm (UTC)(link)
what? they did get nomed lol

(Anonymous) 2021-11-03 05:01 pm (UTC)(link)
huh?? they got a nom for best female artist and best dance

(Anonymous) 2021-11-03 05:01 pm (UTC)(link)
oh i hope we see rosie or lisa perform at mama

(Anonymous) 2021-11-03 05:07 pm (UTC)(link)
sex to me is like good food, and other luxuries. i don't need it to survive, but yes i do enjoy planning extravagant meals, trying new foods, grocery shopping, cooking, etc. i could just eat gray protein blocks for every meal... but i don't want to.

(Anonymous) 2021-11-03 05:10 pm (UTC)(link)
i would love to see lisa because i liked her solos more than on the ground lmao

(Anonymous) 2021-11-03 05:10 pm (UTC)(link)
period i believe

(Anonymous) 2021-11-03 05:15 pm (UTC)(link)
if you're talking about the internet, people go on about how thirsty they are and exaggerate about their sex lives but irl i don't know anyone who shapes their life around attaining sex lol esp not over the age of 25, maybe a relationship but not specifically sex

it's because in most societies and also as seen on meme, being unpartnered makes you a "loser" and indicates there's something wrong or undesirable about you. people deep in partner seeking are more trying to achieve that level of acceptance and normalcy and also enjoy the benefits of a intimate relationship, reducing it to sex is a mistake imo. and yes the bond is just different from platonic bonds. not necessarily better but completely different.

(Anonymous) 2021-11-03 05:22 pm (UTC)(link)
i'm sorry but taemin is not really talented

(Anonymous) 2021-11-03 05:26 pm (UTC)(link)
no fan votes for best male artist so no war but will be a lot of bitching

(Anonymous) 2021-11-03 05:26 pm (UTC)(link)
are you okay

(Anonymous) 2021-11-03 05:27 pm (UTC)(link)
exo as a group has no nominations

(Anonymous) 2021-11-03 05:27 pm (UTC)(link)
only for idea last year

(Anonymous) 2021-11-03 05:33 pm (UTC)(link)
hendery looks like winter a lil in the upper mouth area

(Anonymous) 2021-11-03 05:41 pm (UTC)(link)
mama really has these noms set up for maximum drama and i respect it, lisa vs rose, dream vs 127